There’s a saying that goes like: “Women give sex to get love, while men give love to get sex”. Think about it; what’s on your mind when you are in bed with him… Am I hotter than his ex?
Does he love me? Am I able to please him? But men are a different breed altogether, and they compartmentalize their needs, while women are the emotional ones and often fall weak in bed or otherwise. But it isn’t difficult to decode what’s going on in your man’s mind while in bed. Read on to know some of the common ones.
He thinks: She’s so hot! This is the first thing your partner is thinking while you unhook your bra. Madhav Singh, software engineer, 29, says, “The moment I see my wife undress, it turns me on. There is no effort required in it. It happens instantly.”
She thinks: Will he stay by my side? During sex, a woman’s mind is always speeding up with lots of questions and answers. The moment a man is caressing her breasts, the thought whether he will always be with her or not is ruffling through her mind.
He thinks: She gets it right. Men always appreciate the body language of women during sex. They feel great when you understand what he wants. Junaid Siddiqui, businessman, 35, says, “Sex gets a lot better when you know your partner understands exactly what you want in bed.”
She thinks: Have you slept with many women? Mostly, women adore men with experience. This adds up to his sensuality and expertise. However, this does not mean that she forgets thinking about how many women he’s slept with.
He thinks: She’s got a nice rack – All that your man is thinking during sex is about your boobies. He’s on cloud nine when he’s playing with those soft moulds of yours while seeing you wanting for more.
She thinks: Am I beautiful? – This question arises on every woman’s mind with regard to every man she is with. This adds a higher notch to her confidence and makes her feel loved and desired. Rhea Ghosh, marketing professional, 31, says, “Being complimented by my a man makes me feel wanted, and that makes sex very exciting.